‘The hardest battle is to be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing it’s best, night and day, to make you everybody else.’ e.e. cummings
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Are you your own jailor in your relationship?
Are you your own jailor in your relationship? How blaming others or obligations won’t do!
Do you feel trapped by your social and financial obligations? People often blame their inability to decide whether to stay or leave ...more
Sitting in the ‘waiting room of life’
Sitting in the ‘waiting room of life’ How waiting for permission is fruitless
Many of my clients feel unable to say or do what’s in their hearts or on their minds. Instead, they spend weeks, months and even ...more
Do you suffer from the ‘Gulliver Effect”?
Do you suffer from the ‘Gulliver Effect”? How you stop yourself being yourself
The Gulliver Effect occurs when, day after day, feeling shackled by invisible threads, we don’t speak out for what we believe in nor ...more
‘Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced’
‘Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced’ How to develop a fake atmosphere!
In my experience, many relationships – maybe yours ...more
The ‘Iceberg’ Model of change
The ‘Iceberg’ Model of change Why nothing you’ve tried so far has worked
Most likely, you’re reading this article because you’ve already put a lot of effort into trying to change your relationships at home or at ...more
‘Your Conflict Is Within’
‘Your Conflict Is Within’ How your ‘Uncertain Inner Voice’ is sabotaging your ‘Assured Inner Voice’
Some clients come to me confused by the fact that they think ...more
‘Risk is the tariff for leaving the land of predictable misery’
‘Risk is the tariff for leaving the land of predictable misery’ How fear stops you taking your decision
Are you someone who is tearing themselves apart, unable to decide whether to leave your partner or stay? ...more